I hope you give this a read. Of the things I’ve written recently, this might be the most important to me. I’m playing off a theme started by another blogger last week, but applying it to men in this case.
As I think I’ve said before, I’m always wary when writing about marriage and parenting issues. I don’t want to come off like I’m the wise old veteran dispensing my sage advice, because that couldn’t be further from the truth. Instead, I want this to be read as something offered by someone very much in the thick of it, and very much struggling to be a good man and a decent husband in his own right.Even if it does get pegged with the dreaded ‘marriage advice’ label, I believe that it’s more important to talk about these things than it is to talk about politics or world affairs. Infinitely more important, in fact.
So here are the things, from my view, that are causing many of us husbands to profoundly damage our wives and destroy our marriages. There are other things, for sure, but these might be the most prevalent, and therefore the most relevant to many of us: